I have flaws and I am happy to talk about them!
I am imperfect, and so are you. No one in this world is perfect, every single person on earth has flaws, but it is those imperfections that make YOU unique and truly amazing.
I have had my fair share of PAIN, struggle, hardship and more and for the longest time, I never let anyone know that I had hurdles to overcome for fear of not seeming strong, capable or ENOUGH.
I put on my cape of invincibility and I projected the strong, athletic and driven persona I have developed out to the world so no one would get a glimpse at what was going on inside.
Have you ever put on a brave face to tell yourself that everything in your life is just FINE and you are doing well despite the fact that on the inside you feel like you are ready to break apart?
I feel that perhaps people get the impression that life is easy, or that things just seem to fall into place as I go through this thing called life. I want to set the record straight and let you know that it hasn’t been all sunshine and rainbows!
I have had failed businesses that have led to large amounts of debt.
I have been passed over for jobs I felt I was more than qualified for and I was told to DO more.
I have had my own daughter write me a letter that said, “when are you going to be my mom again?” as all I did was work and I paid someone else to raise my own kids.
I have been cut from Varsity Basketball teams.
I have had times when I looked in the mirror and I didn’t recognize myself.
I have struggled with getting pregnant and needed to seek the help of a specialist.
I have gained weight and have not been happy with the way my clothes fit.
I have wondered if I am being the wife I can be and if I am doing all I can to make my marriage a happy one.
I have had insecurities and doubts as to whether I will be able to achieve all that I have set out to achieve in my life.
I have flaws in my level of organization, my house is often a mess and I need to clean my house every two weeks before my cleaners come so they can actually clean my house!
I often run behind and I am late to meetings as I seem to think I can fit in that one extra thing on my way.
I am sure I am perceived as being competitive, have even been described as aggressive by some my closest friends, but I take that feedback and I use it to learn, grow and find a more empathetic way to approach the relationships in my life. I work every day to relate to people with different personalities and paces in life than me, and that is what allows for relationships to thrive.
Can you relate to any of those internal stories yourself? Are you holding yourself back from shining because the PAIN and the FEAR of those STORIES is too strong?
Have you ever been described in a way that didn’t sit so well with you? How did you deal with that feedback – in a positive and constructive manner, or in a negative way the impacted your perspective on life?
You can choose to react in a positive or a negative way. You may not be able to control your fist thought, but you can always control your second reaction and thought and choose to take the parts of the message that you want to apply in a positive way to improve, grow and stretch your capabilities. Every day in every way, you can choose to get better and better!
I also have chosen a career path that many can’t understand and one which has a negative stigma attached to it in society. I myself used to think network marketing was the “scourge of society” and my husband Ryan and I had conversations about the fact that “we would NEVER do that.”
My business has its ups and downs, its moments of pure frustration and struggle, but it also has provided its moments of joy, love and pride in seeing people achieve their goals and live into their true potential.
These moments far outweigh the struggle.
I have chosen this path, because it has given me the opportunity to touch people’s lives in a way that I never could have imagined.
It has given me a new perspective on life and has provided an opportunity for personal growth and development and a platform to be able to share this message with all of you and to design my own business and my own brand right alongside building a team.
It has given me the time freedom to be with my kids, to not miss out on the important moments of their lives.
It has given me the opportunity to help people with a tool that allows for physical and emotional RESULTS and TRANSFORMATION.
Do you have a goal that is ACHING in your heart to be achieved or accomplished and you have let the the worry or fear of what others will think of you to stop you from pursuing that goal?
I understand how you feel and I am here to tell you that the world WILL judge you, project their fears on to you and doubt and worry will creep into your head as you take steps to onto the path of transformation and change.
You are STRONG enough to handle that feedback.
How do you KNOW until you TRY?
I still have to work at achieving my goals every single day. I have to take time to get grounded, to mediate and express gratitude for all I have in my life when I get into comparison mode and wonder WHY I am not as far along as others.
I am here to speak to YOU – to tell you that you can take that step into your own passion, health and strengths and I will support you on that journey, as I have lived through the projected fears of others and I have gained insight into how to deal with those challenges.
I have climbed to the top of the mountain and I have found what is on the other side in the distance and it is in my heart to share it with all of you.
My mission and my path in life is to help you light your inner spark and to step into the light and shine brightly. My wish is for you to experience all that I have experienced and to find the energy and optimal health that I have found simply by leaning into my own fears and saying YES to something that I once thought was something I would never touch with a 10 foot pole.
You can CHOOSE to move away from that “safe” state of energy and vibration you are currently living in and move to a higher vibration of energy, living life OUT LOUD every single day. However, the only way you get to experience that feeling is by DOING something different and saying YES to YOU.
I was willing to take a RISK and I walked away from my 15 year teaching career, my pension, my security and my means of making an income in order to step into the realm of possibility, potential and true personal growth.
You may read this and say that is crazy, a risk you would never take in your health, your wealth or in your life in general, and perhaps that is true and what I am doing may not be a fit for you.
However, how do you truly know until you TRY?
I am not perfect, I have flaws, I make mistakes, I am sure I have ruffled feathers along my journey, but I am willing to go out on a limb and WORK at growing every day.
Be willing to make mistakes and to take the feedback and criticism you will inevitably face and to take the parts of that which you choose to listen to in order to adapt and course correct as you meander through this thing you call life.
Be empowered to go first, so you too can pave the way for others to have the footprints in the sand to follow. Find your tribe and experience the ups and downs, and those who will be right beside you to pick you up when you stumble.
Your heart knows where it wants to go. All you have to do is accept your own imperfections and LEAN IN.
Let’s go through this life and journey TOGETHER as a TRIBE and help you WAKE up and be ALIVE in your life and live to your fullest potential.
BE HUNGRY for CHANGE. Find your heart and climb to the top of the mountain and then in turn help others reach the peak right alongside you.
Learn how to FLY – First Love Yourself.
If you could change ONE thing about your life in the next 90 days, what would it be? What is your level of commitment to achieving that ONE thing? How would your life be IMPACTED as a results of seeing that through to fruition?
Share your pain and struggles with me – I am here to help you find a better way.
Let’s FLY together!
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www.staceymoore.fit and gain more love, insight and support. xo